8 Ways to Say “Sorry” in French with Audio

You may not hear “sorry” from a French person as often as from English speakers - simply because over-apologizing is not a thing in France. However, you will probably make some language or cultural mistakes if you plan on visiting France - so knowing how to say “sorry” will come in handy.

Of course, there are a multitude of ways of saying sorry in French - after all, good manners and etiquette are highly important in French culture. Choosing the right wording as well as level of formality is the key there. Because of that, you need to be aware of the difference between phrases like, “Je suis désolé(e)” or “Je vous demande pardon.”

So now, let’s dive into the basic French vocabulary and master all the different ways to express that you’re sorry in French. And if you want to learn more about French etiquette and boost your language learning journey, check other articles on our blog.

Je suis désolé(e)

This is the most common way to apologize in the French language. It is the literal translation of the English “I am sorry,” and you will hear it quite often.

This is one of the French apologies that can be used in almost any situation, regardless of how formal it is. You can say it to everyone - your boss, your colleague, your mom, your best friend, even the President of the United States.

It can also be said in several contexts, including when:

Grammar Issues

As you can see, this phrase can be used with different endings - feminine and masculine. This is because you’re using the adjective désolé (literally translated as “sad”) to show your state - thus, it has to agree in number and gender with the noun. The noun here is je (I), so you will use the ending appropriate for your gender.

Fortunately, this shouldn’t affect the way you pronounce this phrase, but be sure to remember this when writing.

Ways to Upgrade “I’m Sorry”

Of course, there are many ways to upgrade your “I’m sorry” by adding some more words to the phrase. For example:

Désolé(e)

Sometimes, the phrase “Je suis désolée” can be a little too formal - for example, if you want to apologize to your friend or partner. In case you can’t pick them up from the train station, or are going to be late, or forgot to do something, you can simply say désolé(e).

For example:

Just like in the full phrase, “Désolé(e)” is an adjective, so it has to agree with the subject of the phrase.

Je regrette

You might have heard the famous song by Edith Piaf titled Non, Je Ne Regrette Rien, which can be translated as “I don’t regret anything” or “I’m not sorry about anything.” Here, you can see another phrase for saying “I’m sorry” - Je regrette.

It’s not as common as “je suis désolé(e),” but it is used in similar situations. It can mean “I regret,” but in most situations, you can use it to say “I’m sorry.”

To expand the phrase and clarify what you’re sorry for, you can also add a construction “de + an infinitive verb” or “que + an independent clause with a subjunctive verb.” For example:

Je suis au regret de vous informer - The Harsh One

You can use a similar construction to inform the other person that something bad happened or to give them the bad news. “Je suis au regret de vous informer…” literally means “I’m sorry to inform you that…”

Pardon

When you bump into someone in the Parisian subway, you don’t have to say “je suis désolé(e).” Instead, you can simply say “pardon.” This one is similar to its English alternative and can be used in public transport or to ask someone to repeat what they said - or even if you make an embarrassing faux pas when speaking in French.

You can also use a little stronger version of this word, which is pardonnes-moi (forgive me) with the informal “tu” form, or pardonnez-moi (forgive me) in the formal “vous” form.

Add a little formality - Je te demande pardon / je vous demande pardon

On the other hand, if you want to add even more formality to a simple “pardon,” you can use a whole phrase instead: Je te demande pardon or Je vous demande pardon, which both mean something like “I ask you for forgiveness.”

These are often used in casual situations - they are much more suitable to express that you’re sorry about your actions or something you said.

Excusez-moi

Just like in English, there is “excuse me,” in French, there is “excusez-moi.” It implies that you’re apologizing but also want to be noticed - for example, to ask a question or bring someone’s attention to something.

In the everyday spoken French, this phrase is also often used to apologize for calling the wrong number:

Also, while this phrase usually comes up in formal situations, it can be used in both casual and formal variants. For the casual form, you would simply change the verb’s ending to “excuses-moi.”

C’est ma faute

French people often add something to “je suis désolé(e)” to explain what they’re sorry for and add some kind of justification. While you will have to find what to apologize for on your own if such a necessity occurs, there is one thing that will often feel in its place: saying “c’est ma faute” or “’est de ma faute” (it’s my fault).

This phrase can also be used to emphasize your sincerity and confess that you did indeed do something wrong.

If it was a past offense, you can say C’était (de) ma faute (it was my fault).

Other French Expressions to Say “I’m Sorry”

Of course, these were just the most common ways to say “I’m sorry” in French. If you want to boost your vocabulary or get prepared for any situation, here are some others:

How to Respond to “I’m Sorry” in French

You might not be one who’s apologizing - sometimes, you need to respond to the other person saying they’re sorry. Here are proper French phrases to do that:

Final Thoughts

Now that you know all the different ways to say “I’m sorry” in French, nothing should stop you from going to France - or at least practicing your speaking skills in conversations with native speakers. Don’t worry, even if you make a mistake and say something inappropriate, people will correct you - and you will be able to sincerely apologize and learn in real-life situations.

Of course, this doesn’t mean you should stop practicing on your own. If you want to become fluent, remember that learning French should be a regular activity, so practice consistently - for example, with flashcards, courses, or the Langster app.

The more you work, the better your skills will be. And we are sure that in some time, you will only need to apologize in French when bumping into someone in the Parisian metro.